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Terminology

LGBTQA+ Terminology

These are terms commonly used by LGBTQA+ people and communities.

A note about these definitions: each of these definitions has been carefully researched and closely analyzed from theoretical and practical perspectives for cultural sensitivity, common usage, and general appropriateness. We have done our best to represent the most popular uses of the terms listed; however, there may be some variation in definitions depending on location.

Each person who uses any or all of these terms does so in a unique way (especially terms that are used in the context of an identity label). If you do not understand the context in which a person is using one of these terms, it is always appropriate to ask. This is especially recommended when using terms that we have noted that can have a derogatory connotation.

Ace
Someone who identities as asexual.

Ag / Aggressive
A term used by people of color to describe a masculine lesbian. Also known as 鈥榮tud.鈥

Agender
A person without gender. An agender individual鈥檚 body does not necessarily correspond with their lack of gender identity. Often, agender individuals are not concerned with their physical sex, but some may seek to look androgynous. [Related Terms: neutrois, genderless, gender neutral]

Ally

  • Someone who confronts heterosexism, anti-LGBTQA+ biases, and heterosexual and cisgender privilege in themselves and others.
  • Has concern for the well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans*, intersex, queer, and other similarly identified people.
  • Believes that heterosexism, homophobia, biphobia, and transphobia are social justice issues.

Androgyne
Person appearing and/or identifying as neither man nor woman. Some androgyne individuals may present in a gender neutral or androgynous way.

Aromantic
Person who experiences little or no romantic attraction to others.

Asexual
Person who does not experience sexual attraction. They may or may not experience emotional, physical, or romantic attraction. Asexuality differs from celibacy in that it is a sexual orientation, not a choice. People who are asexual may call themselves 鈥渁ce.鈥

Assigned at Birth
Commonly utilized by trans* individuals, the term illustrates that the individual鈥檚 sex (and subsequently gender in early life) was assigned without involving the person who鈥檚 sex was being assigned. Commonly seen as 鈥淔emale Assigned At Birth鈥 (FAAB or AFAB) and 鈥淢ale Assigned At Birth鈥 (MAAB or AMAB).

BDSM
(Bondage, Discipline/Domination, Submission/Sadism, and Masochism) The terms 鈥榮ubmission/sadism鈥 and 鈥榤asochism鈥 refer to deriving pleasure from inflicting or receiving pain, often in a sexual context. The terms 鈥榖ondage鈥 and 鈥榙omination鈥 refer to playing with various power roles, in both sexual and social context. These practices are often misunderstood as abusive, but when practiced in a safe, sane, and consensual manner, can be a part of healthy sex life. [Related Terms: Kink, Leather]

Bear

  • A gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body.
  • An umbrella term that is often defined as more of an attitude and a sense of comfort with natural masculinity and bodies.

Bicurious
A person who identifies as gay or straight while showing some curiosity for a relationship or sexual activity with a person of a sex they do not usually engage with. [Related terms: heteroflexible, homoflexible]

Bigender
A person whose gender identity is a combination of male/man and female/woman. They may consciously or unconsciously change their gender-role behavior from masculine to feminine, or vice versa.

Binding
The process of flattening one鈥檚 breasts to have a more masculine or flat appearing chest.

Biphobia
The fear of, discrimination against, or hatred of bisexuals, which is often times related to the current binary standard. Biphobia can be seen within the LGBTQA+ community as well as in general society.

Bisexual
A person who is emotionally, physically, and/or sexually attracted to males/men and females/women. This attraction does not have to be equally split between genders and there may be a preference for one gender over others.

Boi (pronounced boy)

  • A female-bodied person who expresses or presents themselves in a culturally/stereotypically masculine, particularly boyish way.
  • One who enjoys being perceived as a young male and intentionally identifies with being a 鈥渂oy鈥 rather than a 鈥渕an.鈥

Bottom
A person who is the receiving or penetrated partner during sexual activity.

Bottom Surgery
Surgery on the genitals designed to create a body in harmony with a person鈥檚 preferred gender expression. [Related Terms: Gender-confirming surgery, sexual reassignment surgery]

Brown Boi
A masculine of center person of color.

Butch

  • A person who identifies themselves as masculine, whether it be physically, mentally, or emotionally.
  • Sometimes used as a derogatory term for lesbians, but it can also be claimed as an affirmative identity label.

Cisgender
Someone who feels comfortable with the gender identity and gender expression expectations assigned to them based on their physical sex. Also known as 鈥渃issexual.鈥

Cisgender Privilege
The set of privileges conferred to people who are believed to be cisgender. [Examples: having one鈥檚 preferred pronouns used, no harassment in public restrooms, no denial of expected access to healthcare, etc.]

Cissexism
A pervasive and institutionalized system that others transgender people and treats their needs and identities as less important than those of cisgender people.

Coming Out

  • The process of accepting one鈥檚 own sexuality, gender identity, or status as an intersex person (to 鈥渃ome out鈥 to oneself).
  • The process of sharing one鈥檚 sexuality, gender identity, or intersex status with others (to 鈥渃ome out鈥 to friends, etc.).
  • A life-long process for individuals in the LGBTQA+ community.

Cross-dressing
To occasionally wear clothes traditionally associated with people of the other sex. Cross-dressing is a form of gender expression, is not necessarily tied to erotic activity, and is not indicative of sexual orientation.

Demisexual
A person who does not experience sexual attraction unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone. It's more commonly seen in but by no means confined to romantic relationships.

Discrimination
Prejudice + power. It occurs when members of a more powerful social group behave unjustly or cruelly to members of a less powerful social group. Discrimination can take many forms, including both individual acts of hatred or injustice and institutional denials of privileges normally accorded to other groups. Ongoing discrimination creates a climate of oppression for the affected group.

Down Low
Typically used by men of color to describe men who identify as heterosexual, but who have sex with men. Many avoid sharing this information even if they have female sexual partners. [Related terms: Men who sleep with men (MSM)]

Drag
The performance of one or multiple genders theatrically.

Drag King
A person who performs masculinity theatrically.

Drag Queen
A person who performs femininity theatrically.

Dyke

  • Sometimes adopted affirmatively by lesbians (not necessarily masculine ones) to refer to themselves.
  • Derogatory term referring to (often masculine) lesbians.

Fag

  • Derogatory term for a gay or effeminate man.
  • Derogatory term for any individual who does not match their assigned gender role.
  • Sometimes reclaimed by gay men as a self-identifier.

Femme
An individual of any assigned sex who identifies with femininity as dictated by traditional gender roles. A femme identity may be intimately connected to assigned sex such as the case of cisgender female femmes who may be read simply as straight or gender normative. A femme gender identity may also be constructed independently of assigned sex.

FTM
Abbreviation for a female-to-male transgender person. This term reflects the direction of gender transition. Some prefer the term MTM (male to male) to underscore the fact that though they were biologically female, they never identified with that gender identity. [Related terms: transgender man, trans* man]

Gay

  • Used in some cultural settings to represent males who are attracted to males in a romantic, erotic, and/or emotional sense. Not all men who engage in 鈥渉omosexual behavior鈥 identify as gay, and as such this label should be used with caution [See: Down Low].
  • An umbrella term for the LGBTQA+ community.

Gender

  • A socially constructed system of classifications that ascribes qualities of masculinity and femininity to people. Gender characteristic can change over time and vary between cultures.
  • Someone鈥檚 innate sense of being male or female.

Gender Binary
The idea that there are only two genders鈥攎ale/female or man/woman鈥攁nd that a person must be strictly gendered as either/or. [See also: Identity Sphere]

Gender-Confirming Surgery
Medical surgeries used to modify one鈥檚 body to be more congruent with one鈥檚 gender identity. Also known as 鈥榮ex reassignment surgery,鈥 especially within the medical community. In most states, one or multiple surgeries are required to achieve legal recognition of gender status.

Gender Dysphoria
Discomfort or distress caused by one鈥檚 assigned sex and the desire to change the characteristics that are the source.

Gender Expression
How one presents oneself and one鈥檚 gender to the world via dress, mannerisms, hairstyle, facial hair, etc. This may or may not coincide with or indicate one鈥檚 gender identity. Many utilize gender expression in an attempt to determine the gender/sex of another individual. However, a person鈥檚 gender expression may not always match their gender identity.

Gender Identity
A person鈥檚 sense of self as masculine, feminine, both, or neither regardless of external genitalia.

Gender Non Conforming
A person who either by nature or by choice does not conform to gender-based expectations of society (e.g. transgender, transsexual, intersex, genderqueer, butch, cross-dresser, etc.). Also known as 鈥榞ender variant.鈥

Gender Normative
A person who by nature or by choice conforms to gender based expectations of society.

Gender Oppression
The societal, institutional, and individual beliefs and practices that privilege cisgender and subordinate and disparage transgender or gender non-conforming people.

Genderqueer
An individual whose gender identity is neither male nor female, is between or beyond genders, or is some combination of genders. Sometimes this includes a political agenda to challenge gender stereotypes and the gender binary system. Genderqueer individuals may or may not pursue any physical changes, such as hormonal or surgical intervention, and may not identify as trans*.

Grey Ace
Someone who identifies as part of the asexual community but does not identify as completely asexual. This differs from demisexuality in that being demisexual is a specific orientation and a gray ace is used as a catch all for any unspecified identity under the ace umbrella.

Heteronormativity
The assumption, in individuals or in institutions, that everyone is heterosexual, and that heterosexuality is superior to homosexuality, bisexuality, and other sexual orientations.

Heteroromantic
Someone who has romantic feelings for someone of the opposite sex or gender.

Heterosexual
Someone who is sexually attracted to members of the opposite sex. Also known as 鈥榮traight.鈥

Heterosexism
Prejudice against individuals and groups who display non-heterosexual behaviors or identities, combined with the majority power to impose such prejudice. Usually used to the advantage of the group in power. Any attitude, action, or practice鈥攂acked by institutional power鈥攖hat subordinates people because of their sexual orientation.

Heterosexual Privilege
Those benefits derived automatically by being heterosexual or being perceived as heterosexual that are denied to homosexual and bisexual people. Also, the benefits homosexual and bisexual people receive as a result of claiming heterosexual identity or denying homosexual or bisexual identity.

HIV-phobia
The irrational fear or hatred of persons living with HIV/AIDS.

Homophobia
The irrational fear, hatred, or intolerance of people who identify or are perceived as non-heterosexual, including the fear of being read as part of the LGBTQA+ community. Homophobic behavior can range from telling gay jokes to verbal abuse to acts of physical violence.

Homoromantic
Someone who has romantic feelings for members of the same sex or gender.

Homosexual
An out-of-date term for a person who is primarily emotionally, physically, and/or sexually attracted to members of the same sex. Many people view this term as offensive in that it is excessively clinical and sexualizes members of the LGBTQA+ community.

Identity Sphere
The idea that gender identities and expressions do not fit on a linear scale, but rather on a sphere that allows room for all expression without weighting any one expression as better than another.

In the Closet
Refers to a homosexual, bisexual, trans person, or intersex person who will not or cannot disclose their sex, sexuality, sexual orientation, or gender identity to their friends, family, co-workers, or society. An intersex person may be closeted due to ignorance about their status since standard medical practice is to 鈥渃orrect,鈥 whenever possible, intersex conditions early in childhood and to hide the medical history from the patient. There are varying degrees of being 鈥渋n the closet.鈥 For example, a person can be out in their social life, but in the closet at work or with their family.

Institutional Oppression
Arrangements of a society used to benefit one group at the expense of another through the use of language, media, education, religion, economics, etc.

Internalized Oppression
The process by which a member of an oppressed group comes to accept and live out the inaccurate stereotypes applied to the oppressed group.

Intersex Person(s)
Individual(s) born with the condition of having physical sex markers (genitals, hormones, gonads, or chromosomes) that are neither clearly male nor female. Intersex people are sometimes defined as having 鈥渁mbiguous鈥 genitalia.

Leather Community
A community which encompasses those who are into leather, sado-masochism, bondage and domination, uniform, cowboys, rubber, and other fetishes. Although the leather community is often associated with the queer community, it is not a "gay-only" community.

Lesbian
Term used to describe female-identified people attracted romantically, erotically, and/or emotionally to other female-identified people.

LGBTQA+
A common abbreviation for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer and community. The acronym is used as an umbrella term when talking about non heterosexual and non-cisgender identities, and does not always reflect members of the community. The acronym may be expanded to LGBTQIA+ to include intersex individuals, allies, and/or asexual people, or shortened to LGBQA+ when discussing only sexual orientation.

Lipstick Lesbian
Usually refers to a lesbian with a feminine gender expression. Can be used in a positive or a derogatory way, depending on who is using it. Is sometimes also used to refer to a lesbian who is seen as automatically passing for heterosexual.

Masculine of Center
A term used by people of color to describe lesbian/queer/womyn who tilt toward the masculine side of the gender scale and includes a wide range of identities such as butch, stud, aggressive/AG, dom, macha, tomboi, trans masculine, etc.

Monosexual
Attracted to one gender. May be used for individuals who identify as straight, heterosexual, gay, lesbian, etc.

MTF
Abbreviation for a male-to-female transgender person. This term reflects the direction of gender transition. Some people prefer the term FTF (female to female) to underscore the fact that though they were biologically male, they never had a male gender identity. [Related terms: transgender woman, trans* woman]

Nonmonosexual
Attracted to more than one gender. May be used for individuals who identify as fluid, bisexual, pansexual, omnisexual, ambisexual, etc.

Neutrois
A person who identifies as being neither male nor female. This differs from androgyne, in that an androgyne sees themselves as a mix of two genders and neutrois individual sees themselves as not having a gender. [Similar terms: genderless, agender, or non-gendered.]

Oppression
The systematic subjugation of a group of people by another group with access to social power, the result of which benefits one group over the other and is maintained by social beliefs and practices.

Outing
When someone discloses information about another鈥檚 sexual orientation or gender identity without their knowledge and/or consent.

Packing
Wearing a phallic device on the groin and under clothing for any purposes (for someone without a biological penis) including: the validation or confirmation of one鈥檚 masculine gender identity; seduction; and/or sexual readiness (for one who likes to penetrate another during sexual intercourse).

Panromantic
Someone who has romantic feelings for a person regardless of their sex or gender.

Pansexual
A person who has the potential to be attracted to all or many gender identities and expressions.

Passing
Describes a person's ability to be accepted as their preferred gender/sex or to be seen as heterosexual.

Polyamory
Refers to having honest, non-monogamous relationships with multiple partners, which can include: open relationships, polyfidelity (which involves multiple romantic relationships with sexual contact restricted to those), and sub-relationships (which denote distinguishing between a 鈥榩rimary鈥 relationship or relationships and various 鈥榮econdary鈥 relationships).

Prejudice
A conscious or unconscious negative belief about a whole group of people and its individual members. Anyone can be prejudiced toward another individual or group.

Queer

  • An umbrella term which includes lesbians, gay men, bisexuals, trans* people, intersex persons, radical sex communities, and many other sexually transgressive communities.
  • This term is sometimes used as a sexual orientation label or gender identity label used to denote a non-heterosexual or cisgender identity without having to define specifics.
  • A reclaimed word that was formerly used solely as a slur but that has been reclaimed by some folks in the LGBTQA+ community. Nevertheless, a sizable percentage of people to whom this term might apply still hold 鈥榪ueer鈥 to be a hateful insult, and its use by heterosexual people is often considered offensive.

Questioning
An individual who is unsure of and/or exploring their gender identity and/or sexual orientation.

Same Gender Loving (SGL)
A term used by members of the Black community to express same sex/gender attraction. Note that it is often used as an alternative to words that do not culturally affirm the history of people of African descent.

Sex
A medical term designating a certain combination of gonads, chromosomes, external gender organs, secondary sex characteristics, and hormonal balances. Because 鈥榮ex鈥 is usually subdivided into 鈥榤ale鈥 and 鈥榝emale,鈥 this category does not recognize the existence of intersex bodies.

Sex Identity
How a person identifies physically: female, male, in-between, beyond, or neither.

Sexual Orientation
The desire for intimate emotional and/or sexual relationships with people of the same gender/sex, another gender/sex, or multiple genders/sexes.

Sexuality
Refers to a person鈥檚 exploration of sexual behaviors, practices, and identities in the social world.

Stealth
This term refers to when a person chooses to be secretive in the public sphere about their gender history, either after transitioning or while successful passing. Also referred to as 鈥榞oing stealth鈥 or 鈥榣iving in stealth mode.鈥

Stem
A person whose gender expression falls somewhere between a stud and a femme. [See also: femme and stud]

Stereotype
A preconceived or oversimplified generalization about an entire group of people without regard for their individual differences. Some stereotypes can be positive. However, they can have a negative impact, simply because they involve broad generalizations that ignore individual realities.

Stonewall Riots
On June 28, 1969, New York City police attempted a routine raid on the Stonewall Inn, a working-class gay and lesbian bar in New York鈥檚 Greenwich Village. Unexpectedly, the patrons resisted, and the incident escalated into a riot that continued for several days. Many people attribute this event as the catalyst for the American Gay Liberation Movement. It is often left out that the more frequent patrons of this bar were trans women, drag queens, and butch lesbians.

Straight
Another term for heterosexual.

Straight-Acting
A term usually applied to gay men who readily pass as heterosexual. The term implies that there is a certain way that gay men should act that is significantly different from heterosexual men. Straight-acting gay men may be critiqued by members of the LGBTQA+ community for seemingly accessing heterosexual privilege.

Stud
A term used by people of color to describe a masculine lesbian. Also known as 鈥榓ggressive.鈥

Switch
A person who is both a 鈥榯op鈥 and a 鈥榖ottom.鈥 There may or may not be a preference for one or the other. Also known as 鈥榲ersatile.鈥

Top
A person who is the giving or penetrating a partner during sexual activity.

Top Surgery
This term usually refers to surgery for the construction of a male-type chest, but may also refer to breast augmentation.

Trans*
An abbreviation that is used to refer to a transgender/gender queer/gender non-conforming person. This use allows a person to state a gender variant identity without having to disclose hormonal or surgical status/intentions. This term is sometimes used to refer to the whole gender non-conforming community that might include (but is not limited to) transgender, genderqueer, genderfluid, non-binary, genderf*ck, transsexual, agender, third gender, two-spirit, bigender, trans man, trans woman, gender non-conforming, masculine of center, and gender questioning.

Transfeminine

  • A term used to describe those who were assigned male at birth, but identify as more female than male.
  • Those who identify as transfeminine, as opposed to simply as MTF or a woman, trans, or otherwise often place themselves feminine of center. That is, they identify more closely with femaleness than maleness, and generally desire a physical appearance that reflects this identification, but do not identify as wholly female or as a woman. It should be noted that transfeminine is not a descriptor of gender expression, but of identity. Transfeminine people do not necessarily have to be stereotypically feminine in their interests or even presentation.

Transgender
A person who lives as a member of a gender other than that expected based on sex or gender assigned at birth. Sexual orientation varies and is not dependent on gender identity.

Transition
This term is primarily used to refer to the process a gender variant person undergoes when changing their bodily appearance either to be more congruent with the gender/sex with which they identify and/or to be in harmony with their preferred gender expression.

Transmasculine

  • A term used to describe those who were assigned female at birth, but identify as more male than female.
  • Those who identify as transmasculine, as opposed to simply as FTM or a man identify more closely with maleness than femaleness, and generally desire a physical appearance that reflects this identification, but do not identify as wholly male or as a man. It should be noted that transmasculine is not a descriptor of gender expression, but of identity. Transmasculine people do not necessarily have to be stereotypically masculine in their interests or even presentation.

Trans Man
An identity label sometimes adopted by female to male trans people to signify that they are men while still affirming their transgender history.

Trans Woman
An identity label sometimes adopted by male to female trans people to signify that they are women while still affirming their transgender history.

Transphobia
The irrational hatred of those who are transgender or gender non-conforming, sometimes expressed through violent and sometimes deadly means.

Transsexual
A person who identifies psychologically as a gender/sex other than the one to which they were assigned at birth. Transsexuals often wish to transform their bodies hormonally and surgically to match their inner sense of gender/sex.

Two-Spirit
A Native American term for people who blend the masculine and the feminine. It is commonly used to describe individuals who historically crossed gender. It is often used by contemporary LGBTQA+ Native American people to describe themselves.

Versatile
A person who is both a 鈥榯op鈥 and a 鈥榖ottom.鈥 There may or may not be a preference for one or the other. Also known as 鈥榮witch.鈥

Ze/Hir
Alternate pronouns that are gender neutral and preferred by some gender variant persons. Pronounced /zee/ and /here,/ they replace he/she and his/hers, respectively.

This terminology sheet was originally created by Eli R. Green and Erica Peterson of the LGBT Resource Center at the University of California, Riverside, 2003-2004, and has been revised using resources from the following organizations: University of California, Riverside; MIT; University of California, Berkeley; George Washington University; California State University, San Marco; University of California, San Diego; Bowling Green State University; The Asexuality Visibility and Education Network (AVEN); and Wikipedia. Updated May 2015.